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All posts for the day March 6th, 2015

Warning…another “50 Shades rant” inbound.  🙂

Had a pleasant chat with the fine folks at Restrained Elegance on Twitter.  I think…THINK…I was chatting with Ariel Andresson (sp?) andout Mr. Grey and James Bond, believe it or not.  Apparently in Britain, some kids were doing a dress up day in school…a “James Bond” was happily accepted, while the Grey character from 50 Shades was sent home to change costumes.  Strange that.  I mean, on some level I get it…Bond is a hero because he gets the bad guys…but he’s still killing people. The people who NEED killing, mind you, but he’s still killing…and a kid dressed as a sexual sadist gets sent home to change?  Again…I GET why…but it seems we still have a ways to go in removing the taboo around what we do.  :/

And by the way, I said it best here:

I don’t want a woman who wants to “fix” me. I also don’t want a sub who’s a complete dishrag. Neither is true BD/SM.
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